The meaning of dreams is one of the great mysteries and debates that human beings have today. You can sleep anywhere, including an airplane. While for many it is something that does not have any kind of explanation, but they simply accept that it happens and that’s it, others want to give it a spin and consider that each of the dreams has a special meaning. In this way, dreaming of someone has a symbolism.
What is dreaming of someone?
Many people do not remember what they dream when they wake up, while others remember it with every single detail. Throughout the nights you can dream of really different situations and protagonists. We can dream from a relative, a friend or our platonic love. Even when we have a partner, a dream can be the way to reawaken the spark that we lacked with him or her. However, beyond all this, if you are able to remember dreams, they can end up having an emotional meaning that sheds some light on us for the future.
Aligning you with the group of people who believe that dreams have a special meaning and, therefore, do not happen by chance, dreaming of someone can have multiple meanings depending on the context, the moment and the person they are. In this sense, if it is a co-worker, a relative or a friend, it does not matter. Depending on the relationship we have with that person, it will have one meaning or a very different one. Obviously, the action that takes place in the dream will also have something to say for the future of the final interpretation that we can make. For example, having someone in mind in our dreams committing any type of mistake or mistake will denote fear and low self-esteem, since it will mean that we will be afraid of a possible unpleasant surprise in the not too distant future. However, if the action varies and what we dream is someone discovering someone else’s mistake, it will not be a good sign either, since we will be afraid of a possible confrontation with our real problems.
Dreaming of someone can also have a really negative pretext. Have you ever considered dreaming of your worst enemy? On some occasions it has ended up happening. In fact, if you have the image of a dream killing someone, it is most likely that you really have a lot of contempt for that person and it is also normal that it ends up being mutual. However, in periods of mourning, especially when someone close to us and whom we held in esteem has left, if we dream of that person it is a sign that we need to release our stress and anguish over the loss of that loved one. If we lower the level of negativity and simply dream of someone doing something wrong, it is a sign that we are afraid of discovering something about that person that we may not like and that it could change our current relationship with that person, be it a relative, friend or something else. Undoubtedly, the different meanings that we can interpret from dreams are multiple and all are possible. Above all, it is important to analyze the moment of the person and the way of being that the protagonist of the person who is sleeping and in the middle of the dream may have.
Advantages of dreaming with someone
All in all, dreaming of someone has many advantages both for our self-esteem and for our brain development. The most prominent are the following:
- Have a purpose. If we dream of someone, it means that someone has an impact on our feelings. Therefore, our brain expresses some of our desires or concerns in the form of dreams. Through dreams, we can find the solution to our goal.
- They serve as self-therapy. Precisely, it also helps us to release stress and clean our brain. Likewise, it also develops our brain capacity and sharpens the memory that we may have in the future.
- Prepare the mind for complicated situations. Dreams represent different stories that can happen in real life. Therefore, dreaming about them and seeing them represented while we sleep can help us prepare for when it can really happen to us and we know the context we are facing and the possible solutions to the problems we may have.
- They bring creativity. In this sense, although the problem is not exactly the same, dreaming of someone can also give us that extra creativity that we may have to face in some situations in life. Having experienced something once is always easier when you find yourself in that situation again.
How to dream of someone?
In some cases, the illusion of something leads us to want to keep it in mind at all times and, therefore, we want to dream of the boy we like when we sleep. Next, we will explain some procedures to end up causing these dreams. Before lying in bed and ending up falling into our dreams, spend some time thinking exclusively about him and in that context in which you would like to share his company, such as a romantic walk, dinner or just a party. Having it in your head will help your subconscious understand that it is important to you. When we want something strongly, we must repeat it out loud several times and thus we must repeat its name. For example, some parents tell their children that the best way to stop to wet the bed is to say that they will never do it again.
However, a picture is worth a thousand words and, therefore, carefully looking at a photo of him can also be the way to end up dreaming about him. At the time of falling asleep, try to combine your voice saying his name with the photograph of him that you have been looking at and you will fall into your dreams with a fresh and real memory of that person. When it comes to wanting to control your dreams, you will need a shoot and, therefore, you must establish a training routine to carefully repeat this type of exercise and thus make this person appear when you want and not when your subconscious wants it. Lucid dreams are the name given to those dreams that are caused by us. Therefore, it is also recommended that you write a journal of what you dream at night, just as you can write one of your thoughts and experiences throughout your life.
The context in which you go to bed will also mark the future of your dreams. Make sure that the environment is completely suitable for it and that you will be able to sleep peacefully and relax. Try to fall into your dreams, and repeat this practice to gain confidence in the so-called lucid dreams. This is the first step because the next one is none other than getting the person we want to appear in our dreams to have absolute and total control. However, dreaming of the boy you like is perfectly possible to control when we want, and to be able to decide what we want to dream of and get the most out of it. They say that sleep is a really personal part of the day and, therefore, we must be able to enjoy it to the fullest.